I'm not offended. I love you...
I actually listened to Rap music in 1969-70.

The group was called the LAST POETS. Every other word was the F Bomb and other forms of it. It was actually very funny, because of the stories they told. Very insightful and eye opening. I can't stomach most of the rap today.
I had an awakening experience one night to the real power of music.
I was playing a bar that was connected to a bowling alley. It's not in the sticks but it's a little out there. I used to live a few miles from there. Anyway the crowd was really wound up, like crawling on the ceiling. I was expecting things to blow up at any minute. Keep in mind that this is before most of the heavy swearing songs started to come out. Like 10-12 years ago. So I figured I needed to do something to slow the pace down some. I decided to sing a slow song.
To my

AMAZEMENT

6 couples started slow dancing right in front of me. The entire mood of the crowd INSTANTLY mellowed.....It took me completely by surprise. I NEVER expected that to happen. They actually loved it. And I regained some control. In 3 minutes the crowd was mine all mine.
Just imagine if you found out you could control the weather. In an instant. That's how I felt with my new discovery.
That was my awakening moment. I clearly remember it as if it happened today. I found out exactly how powerful music was and how I could control everything in a blink of an eye.
From that time on I developed my atitude towards how I would be in control of my show. Not the singers, but me. So when I say I control my show, I mean it. I can change the course of the evening at any given moment. Just by changing the tempo of the music.
Think about what I just said. Change the course of the entire evening with a song. That song can be a bad choice and start a riot, or it can be a good choice and soothe the savage beast. Remember that saying???
MUSIC SOOTHES THE SAVAGE BEAST
MUSIC....Not talking, not yelling, not jumping up and down. MUSIC
Music can also incite people. Look at Charles Manson...I know you are going to say but he and his troupe were on dope.

So are half the bar crowds today.

Dope or drunk.

That makes them savage beasts. Now add the wrong music to the mix.
Once I found the key....I used it to my full advantage to, if you will control the crowd. Been doing it every show since then. I have it down to a science.
If it's not in the book to sing, it can't sway them off course. I am the conductor of the entire show. Nobody can hi-jack my show. I'm the Federal Marshall in the cock-pit. The plane lands where I say it will everytime.
I don't think that makes me cocky or a jerk.
I don't beat around the bush. I'm totally honest and to the point. I speak with passion that others don't have. I have seen and used everything that works and doesn't. I'm open to learn new things.
I evaluate my competitions downfalls. I know every stupid bar owner mistake. Every KJ mistake.
I see people (KJs) that say karaoke is dieing. Yes because there are many KJs that are contributing to that death. Playing dance sets does that exactly.
It's an excuse to say I can't do karaoke very good and my crowds won't stay because they are not entertained. Why not?? Who is in charge of the entertainment? The non singers? NO... Are you hired to do the non-singers or karaoke? Are you a KJ or a DJ? Do you go see a DJ and ask him to do a karaoke song for you? While everyone else is there to dance?
I don't cater to anyone but the singers. But I make sure the non-singers are entertained and happy. I control the show. KJ/DJs are not in control. Their crowd is. They let non-singers hi-jack the karaoke night that you were hired to supply.
Yes karaoke is dieing

and KJ/DJs are killing it a little with each and every show. You have the power, but you don't know what you are doing and how to use it. You don't have the passion or committment to do a pure karaoke show night after night. I'll NEVER sell out to the non-singers to keep a job.
The new job Saturday night guy just asked me today if I DJ and KJ. I told him NO. If it means they decide not to hire me because of that...Oh well.
I AM A KJ....PERIOD. My time is not divided trying to keep up with DJ music.
Karaoke takes up all of my time. It's the business I started and the only one I run. I have no desire to do a wedding or private party that requires me to DJ/KJ ever again. If you want to hire a real KJ, I'm your guy.
I'm not a wannabe KJ that DJs or vice versa. If you can show me a more successful KJ, lead me to them. I'll see if I can learn something.
I don't have any worries about all of my competition learning me secrets or even knowing every piece of equipment I use. Because they don't have my passion level. All my info and no drive doesn't mean a thing. Knowing every piece of equipment won't help them, because they don't want to spend the money. "I want to be a KJ as cheap as possible."
Show me one person that takes out a loan for $20,000...17 years ago...What was it worth then? 2 new cars???? That's my driving force and my confidence in my abilities to be a success.
Cocky ???? NO...Jerk...NO....Know what I'm talking about from years of doing it???? YES.. Call me confident in my continued ability to run a professional pure karaoke show, night after night. An idiot couldn't make up all this detail.
